Take into account the most recent slip-up you made at work. You undoubtedly felt a wave of tension and then had the uncomfortable duty of making things right, even if it was something little, like spilling coffee on a paper only a few seconds before it was supposed to be presented. Given our shared humanity, none of us is immune to making mistakes. But if we just apologise and keep doing what we were doing before, we’ll inevitably repeat our previous errors.
When we don’t reflect on and correct our mistakes, we endanger our relationships with others and add unnecessary strain to our own lives. In this piece, we will talk about methods to ensure that we listen to those teachings and put them into practise.
Understanding how to stop repeating the same mistakes again and over
Here is a list of five things you can do to learn from your mistakes and put what you’ve learnt into practise. When used in this context, “failure” is not synonymous with “error.” It’s common knowledge that taking the wrong action may have disastrous results, and that failure itself is the result of having taken the wrong action. Thus, blunders provide the chance to learn and grow, whereas setbacks give only the chance to learn and grow via experience. You should learn from your mistakes in the below mentioned ways.
Accept Responsibility for Your Mistakes
Accepting that you made a mistake is the first step toward learning from it. As a result, relax, take a few deep breaths, and finally admit that you have one. Notify those who need to know, apologise, and let them know you’re working on a fix.
Although it requires courage to admit fault, doing so is far better than making excuses or placing the responsibility on others. Long after they’ve forgotten the original wrong and forgiven you, people will remember your boldness and honesty.
However, if they find out about it elsewhere, your reputation will take a blow, and you may not have another opportunity to learn.
Think the Error Through Again
The way you see your mistakes will shape how you react to them and the choices you make going ahead. As long as the initial shock and grief you felt because of your mistake persists, it’s likely that’s how you’ll continue to see it. However, if you can see your mistake as a teaching moment, you may motivate yourself to grow in knowledge and fortitude as a consequence.
After admitting fault, the following stage is to think about ways to prevent the same mistake in the future. For instance, if you discovered that you had not adhered to a method in its entirety, you would want to consider introducing a more detailed checklist or a comprehensible procedure document.
Put an end to your self-criticism, collect your thoughts, and then start wondering what, if anything, you may take away from this.
One piece of advice is to remember that your mental state has a significant impact on how you assess your mistakes and, more importantly, how you react to them. People who have a “growth mentality” look at setbacks not as something they’ll forever be bound to repeat, but as a chance to learn and progress. A person whose mind is “fixated” on the idea that they are hopeless is not like this. The knowledge you need to develop a growth mindset may be found in our article titled “Dweck’s Fixed and Growth Mindsets.”